Love is a Mystery

What Is Love?

It is a mystery why we fall in love.
It is a mystery how it happens.
It is a mystery when it comes.

It is a mystery why some love grows
and it is a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and
look for reasons and causes,
but you will never do anymore
than take the life out of the experience.

Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life –
the gift of love will come to you in full flower,
and you will take hold of it
and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty.

This is the dream we all share.
More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.

When people fall out of love,
they want answers where there are no answers.
They want to know what is wrong
in them that makes the other person no
longer love them, or they try to get their lover to change,
thinking that if some small things were different,
love would bloom again.

They blame their circumstances
and say that if they go far away and start
a new life together,their love will grow.
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened.

If you find yourself in love with someone
who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Love just didn’t choose to rest in
the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love
with you and you don’t love him,
feel honored that love came and called at your door,
but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.
Do not take advantage; do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you,
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys,
even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another,
and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave,
do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame.
Let it go …..

There is a reason and there is a meaning.
You will know in time.

Remember that you don’t choose love.
Love chooses you.

The secret of love is that it is a gift,
and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

If you keep your heart open, it will come again!